Humility

How difficult is it for us to accept and admit that others are stronger than us? If we think of strength as the power to tell others what to do, we'll always be intimidated by those who seem to have more than us. More expertise, more experience, more energy, more intelligence, more talents.

This will not lead to a happy and contended life. We'll never stop proving to others and ourselves how much better we could be. The pressures and burdens are just beyond description. They just eat you up day by day, killing all your laughter and smile. What is left? Tormenting Exhaustion...

Is humility the only solution?

Love is not blind

Pursuing a soul mate who shares your purpose and vision in life will automatically narrow down your field of favorable relationship. To many people it appeared to be just too rigid, too rational to narrow down the field even further, in a simpler term…you are being too fussy and picky. Many think falling in love is something that happens without you realizing it regardless when where or who.

But the law of exclusivity tells us that the most fulfilling relationships are never broad. This is just equivalent to the concept of focus which can be also applied to the arena of relationships. I simply believe that when you practice the law of exclusivity, you are eliminating the tendency of building relationships with people who do not value integrity, respect, excellence, and an eternal vision. Must everyone agree that love is blind? Or something like, if you never try you never know?

God has given us the discernment to make wise decision in life didn’t He? Unfortunately, many times we tend to depend on our emotions and feelings to rule over God’s wisdom for us... the question is are we falling in love for love? Or are we falling in love with someone you truly believe you can spend your life time with? It is a question that will always remain there. If ever once you doubted the love, doubted who he or she really is then I would say marriage is not a matter to be raised yet.

People often say I love you…many times I have said it too. But do we really mean what we said or shall I put it as can we accomplish what we intended to mean?