Marriage

All the girls on earth are so afraid of the term old maid, and so they grab the first train that rambles down their marital road. Unfortunately, it only offers a one way ticket to disaster which is worst than spending a life time alone. No turning back! I certainly believe that marriage doesn't revolve around you and your lover, neither it is just for pleasure or fun. Marriage is a relationship where both helping each other to grow and fulfilling their spouse purposes. A marriage is made to bless others.

Many marriages in this generation are being such a baggage to the society instead of a blessing, showing very bad examples to the younger generations. We have couples who said, why get married? The beginning of a marriage is the end of your life chapter. Totally absurd! Marriage has been described like a crime by human beings who simply don’t understand love. Marriage is a covenant... marriage means you have found someone special to walk along with you on your journey of life till the day you die. It grieves my heart to know friends around me who rejects the idea of everlasting love. How can they have this mind set at such a young age? This negative prophecy has been penetrated in everyone heads and even worst, heart. People start a marriage with their mind thinking their love will not last; it is indeed a faithless marriage they are indulging.

Before we step into a relationship, it is crucial to know that you are committing for the long haul. If you cannot commit, don’t say the marriage oath. The inability to see the long-term is the cause for the present divorce rate. Their unwillingness to commit till the end causes them to look at what they can get short-term, and when something better comes along or obstacles they are unable to settle, they leave. In any type of relationship, a long-term perspective is a necessary attribute. It will cause two individuals to overlook present trouble and move toward a purposeful future.

In short, girls should never compromise the criteria you have set for your future partner even if it takes century for your man to arrive. Stop listening to the man, but listen with your eyes. (They are too good in words) Watch them, don’t be rush in making decision. Take the waiting as an opportunity to develop yourself, built your character and when the right man comes along, you are presenting him the very best of you.