Jealousy

I believe all ladies are familiar with this term. We all know when it strikes us but we just couldn’t help to control it and let it ruled over us. Why do the females like to compare with one another? When exactly will we stop making comparison? Whenever a new girl came into the class, you can imagine a bunch of girls already asking questions like; do you think she is pretty? Obviously hoping the answer is a big “NO”. Or statement like, she is not really that pretty if you look close up. And according to the men, whenever girls introduce their friends to them, the friends will never be prettier than the introducer. It is in nature for girls to react with jealousy when she is intimidated.

The fact is we girls are too tide up with the idea of being the only best. Everyone has a different measurement for the best. Even if you think you are the best, but surprisingly to some you might not be. This is how uniquely God has created us. We are too caught up comparing and checking out our competitors and never take a good look at ourselves. We all have qualities that others might not have, if we learn how to appreciate and really be grateful for them, we will not be having this issue at all.

Jealousy brings decay to our lives because it causes us to focus on anger and bitterness. Jealousy tears families and friends apart and apparently, jealousy is famous of being the best friend’s demolisher. There is nothing wrong having more than one beauty on earth, it makes no harm when your best friend excel more than you in examinations. We need to be wiser in handling this unnecessary threat that will only portray the ugly and childish sight of us. The moment you have successfully put jealousy under your feet, it also means you have gain eternal victory over all. An indicator to show you have successfully kill the jealousy in you is when you have stopped gossiping and back stabbing, it is also the time when you truly felt happy for your best friend with their achievement from the bottom of your heart.

Suddenly it seems too difficult to attain especially the gossiping part huh? Like I always feel, living a righteous life is never convenient. In short, you can’t have both. It is indeed a life time choice to be made and your choice of walking through life according to principle often means you must walk alone.